Clemson has done right by Ray Ray
The Post and Courier
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Like everything else in the Ray Ray McElrathbey saga, the latest chapter started poorly and got better. Maybe Clemson head coach Tommy Bowden and school officials made it up as they went along over the last few days. Finally (we think), it was announced (if quite clumsily) that the college football player made famous for gaining custody of his younger brother, Fahmarr, has the opportunity next year to work toward a graduate degree while he serves as an assistant in the school's athletic department. Technically, Bowden did not revoke McElrathbey's scholarship in that McElrathbey is allowed to continue his studies without having to cut large checks to Clemson. Bowden, however, terminated McElrathbey's Clemson football career by at the very least strongly discouraging the Atlanta native from participating in the program. McElrathbey can keep his full football scholarship until he graduates in August with a sociology degree that will have been impressively gained in just over three years on campus. To some, it qualifies as a classic case of "running off" a running back who has more eligibility. And what a public relations nightmare, right? Showing the love I mean, Ray Ray was a guest on Oprah. He was virtually a regular feature during televised Clemson games in 2006 after The Post and Courier's Larry Williams was the first to report his touching story. But Bowden and Terry Don Phillips, Clemson's athletic director/law professor, didn't arrive in Pickens County in the back of poultry trucks (not that there's anything wrong with a dependable poultry truck). On some level, and probably several, cutting football ties with Ray Ray was weighed heavily against perception, reality and that nebulous in between. Bowden keeps declining elaborative comment, so we must theorize. It's quite possible Bowden and others at Clemson can live with themselves knowing Ray Ray since signing on the orange dotted line came into a sweet trust fund, was embraced by the Clemson community and got to tell his story on ABC's World News Tonight and in Sports Illustrated. Donations came in from all over. For example, Virginia football players pitched in when defensive lineman Chris Long shook down his teammates and mailed the money to the Fahmarr fund. Fade to orange It's possible the coaching staff is doing McElrathbey a favor by not saying why he no longer is wanted as a football player. It's definitely not a stretch to say a non-professional football prospect in charge of a young teen might be better off moving on to the college-degreed work force or graduate work without having to worry about a relatively frivolous pursuit. By the way, Bowden gets custody of another football scholarship, which might come in handy some Saturday down the line against Virginia Tech. But cynics have to know there are players he could have run off without having to answer so many questions. No, this isn't the way the Ray Ray football story was supposed to end. It should have gone something like ... "Ray Ray McElrathbey in at tailback here in Chestnut Hill as the Tigers, down four, try to fight through snow flurries, the aroma of yummy Italian food and a tough Boston College defense with five seconds left on fourth-and-goal at the 2 ... Harper pump fakes to new tight end Trevor Booker, gives to Ray Ray and he scores! There's purple in the end zone!" Fade to black. Or orange. In a real world all too familiar to McElrathbey, a degree and graduate study isn't a bad alternate ending to his Clemson experience.
Reach Gene Sapakoff at gsapakoff@postandcourier.com.
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Posted by archdude on March 12, 2008 at 9:01 a.m. (Suggest removal)
Enough on the one kid...are they doing right by ALL their other students? Not everyone has a picture-perfect life and many have extra responsibilities they have to take on at various points so lets stop acting like this kid should be made a saint.
Did he do a good thing, yes. Do we wish him luck, yes. Do I want to hear about him daily, NO! At least not unless I get daily updates of everyone else who has endured hardships.
Posted by rebel1 on March 12, 2008 at 2:59 p.m. (Suggest removal)
give me a break. anybody with a pea size brain knows why tammy cut him. DIDNT NEED HIM ANYMORE. maybe he can pray for him in church sunday.
Posted by ashleyriver on March 12, 2008 at 3:16 p.m. (Suggest removal)
rebel---you mean sorta like when Spurrier cut those 4 kids football scholarships upon first arriving in columbia? Only difference was, McElrathbey is still on football scholarship until he is graduated in August. Then, while his brother is enrolling in his first year of high school, Ray Ray will be able to start graduate school receiving his books and tuition for free while he already has a job as a graduate assistant.
and while "tammy" is praying in church on Sunday, maybe he'll also pray for all those gamecock football players who've already been arrested and the ones who'll be arrested in the very near future......I mean, they're due, right? Its been almost 4 days since a gamecock football player has been arrested or suspended for hitting another player.
Posted by coachken on March 12, 2008 at 3:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Ray Ray did not reach his potential on the field, personnal problems and other responsibilities certinly were a factor. He did get a degree and not in sports managment or basket weaving. He is leaving with a degree in Sociology.
Most of the time students cut themselves and leave school for academic reasons. Football got him a chance at an edgucation and he didn't blow it. It looks like Bowden was up front with him, he is a fourth or fifth running back at best. Yes Bowden gets a scholarship but the trade off is a job and the opertunity to further his edgucation. Can you say Win-Win?
Posted by mdtpace on March 12, 2008 at 3:42 p.m. (Suggest removal)
You wonder why you never hear about Clempsun's problem players? It's because there is no newspaper in Clempsun and the grossly biased Anderson paper doesn't count. With The State newspaper in Columbia, those players can't spit on the sidewalk without it making the paper. It took Roman Fry killing that assistant track coach on Lake Keowee for something negative to make the news about Clemson. I have a lot of respect for what the school and Bowden and the team have done for McElrathbey and his brother. I hate Clempsun, but you can't help but respect the program and the fans for how they reached out to this family. Bowden hurt himself by not coming clean with what is going on. McElrathbey brought a lot of positive attention to Clemson and the team. That alone is worth keeping him on scholarship. The players at SC shouldn't have been there in the first place. I wish Spurrier would throw more of them out, starting with the Lindsey degenerate twins. McElrathbey is a positive representative for the program and school. I wish SC had players with his qualities.
Posted by tiggerlady on March 12, 2008 at 9:07 p.m. (Suggest removal)
mdtpace excuses, excuses....get real about the no newspaper.
Posted by youmanyo on March 12, 2008 at 9:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Classic gamecock loser logic.