Homicide inside the home
'06 slayings spotlight S.C. domestic violence
The Post and Courier
Monday, September 24, 2007
'06 slayings spotlight S.C. domestic violence
How to get help
If you or someone you know is being abused and wants help, call one of the following: --My Sister's House: 744-3242 or 800-273-4673. --S.C. Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-260-9293. --National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233.
The victims
In 2005, South Carolina ranked seventh in the United States for the rate of women killed by men. --43 women were killed by men. --22 victims were black, and 21 victims were white. --38 knew their suspected killers. --30 were wives, common-law wives, ex-wives or girlfriends of the offenders. --21 women were shot to death; 17 of those were killed with handguns. --Nine women were slain with knives. --Five women were killed by bodily force. --One woman was killed with a blunt object.
With the first anniversary of his family's slaying approaching, Christan Rainey plans to spend some quiet time alone in his Baton Rouge, La., apartment. On Sept. 30, 2006, his immediate family was gunned down in a North Charleston mobile home. In a sweeping act of violence, Rainey lost his mother, Detra Rainey, and four siblings. Michael Anthony Simmons, Detra Rainey's husband of one year, awaits trial, charged with five counts of murder. An overwhelming majority of women slain by men in South Carolina know their killers, according to the latest report from the Violence Policy Center. The Washington, D.C.-based nonprofit group analyzed 2005 homicide figures and found that all but five of the 43 women slain in South Carolina knew their killers. Thirty were wives, ex-wives or girlfriends of the assailants. Nationally, black women were killed at a rate nearly three times higher than white women in 2005, according to the study. In South Carolina, 22 of the women killed by men were black, and 21 were white. Nearly a year has passed since Christan Rainey received the terrible news, and he still struggles to make sense of it. "You can look at everything from a religious aspect — that everything happened for a reason — but you're still forced to live with it," Rainey said. "I wish I could have stayed home. Things would have been different," he said. "Michael never tried to disrespect my mom around me. I would not tolerate that." The state moved down to No. 7 in the U.S. for its rate of women killed by men in 2005, with 1.97 deaths per 100,000 people. South Carolina ranked sixth for three years after it held the ignominious first place spot in 2001. Vicki Bourus, executive director of the S.C. Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault, said, "We're praying this downward trend continues. It's certainly hopeful." Bourus attributes the drop to a series of policy and legislative changes. A 2005 criminal domestic violence bill increased fines and sentences. Second offenses moved from the magistrate level to general sessions court, and third offenses became felonies with a minimum one-year sentence, up from a misdemeanor charge and minimum 90-day sentence. Domestic violence courts are opening up across the state. These courts, which are led by judges more educated in domestic violence issues, lead to fewer dropped cases, better referrals to shelters and treatment for the batterers, Bourus said. Also, state Attorney General Henry McMaster worked with the General Assembly to fund criminal domestic violence prosecutors. As this force takes shape in 2007, a team of established pro bono attorneys are helping prosecute cases at the first-offense magistrate level. "Ranking No. 7 in the nation in something so hideous, as domestic violence is a terrible shame for South Carolina," said Mark Plowden, spokesman for McMaster. Criminal domestic violence is the worst criminal problem facing the state, Plowden said. "Moving down a spot from No. 6 is encouraging, but more a glaring reminder that much, much more work must be done in this state," he said. McMaster is expected to release 2006 figures on male and female victims killed by domestic violence at the 10th annual Silent Witness ceremony Oct. 1 in Columbia. Those numbers will be used by the Violence Policy Center for its next study. Rainey, who is majoring in computer science at Southern University, works 40 hours a week at a Wal-Mart tire and lube service department to pay for his education. "I wanted to come home, but I'm in school, and it's hard to come home," he said by phone from Baton Rouge. When people gather at the steps of the Statehouse in Columbia to honor those killed by domestic violence last year, Rainey will hold a lone vigil in Louisiana. With his compass gone, he doesn't know where home is. "I don't know where I'm happier at. I love being in Charleston ... but it's hard being there because you know something's missing."
Reach Jill Coley at 937-5719 or jcoley@postandcourier.com.
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Posted by SLK29406 on September 24, 2007 at 1:11 p.m. (Suggest removal)
I am so very sorry for this young man. What pain you must have been enduring this past year, this is such a tragedy.
I hope that you will be allowed an impact statement at the time of sentancing. This will not bring back your family, but it may help you in your recovery.
The very best to you for continuing your education.
Posted by justme2 on September 24, 2007 at 5:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)
I remember that story and I applaud you for being strong. To lose that many family members at one time is horrible. I know it will take years to heal. But try not to think, "If I could have, should have or would have". We all feel like that when we lose someone. You are loved. Keep up the good work in School. At least it can be said that you are doing what your mother wanted for you. Stay in school and do good. You are to be commended for being in school and holding down a 40 hour a week job to support yourself. Keep up the good work son.
I don't understand this comment or know what it has to do with the story and your situation.
Posted by sprigs06 (anonymous) on September 24, 2007 at 1:44 a.m. (Suggest removal)
If people would learn how to spell and construct proper sentences, these things would never happen. Our organization is working steadfast to correct and enact action towards the ignorant and the dumbfounded.
Sounds like something porkbreath would post. Some people ar just plain ignorant.
Posted by realman on September 25, 2007 at 12:03 a.m. (Suggest removal)
"In South Carolina, 22 of the women killed by men were black, and 21 were white."
I'm sure there's a White Male somewhere who's responsible for this.
Posted by beemz on September 25, 2007 at 12:36 a.m. (Suggest removal)
to the young man god speed continue doing your best.im sure your family is proud of you.you are an inspiration and i pray that you are bless endlessly in everything that you conquer.
realman...that was not nice...
why would you say something like that?
this is not the forum to spew your obvious racist remark...
the point of the story is "'06 slayings spotlight S.C. domestic violence".granted it states by race how many were killed and by whom. it still does not warrant you writing what you did.this is not a joke this is a serious matter and i feel for the victims and families that have to live with something this horrible.
god bless
Posted by trainey35 on September 26, 2007 at 7:36 p.m. (Suggest removal)
I am thankful to everyone for their prayers. I am the sister of Detra Rainey. This past year has been very hard for me and the rest of my family. There is never a day that go by that I don't think about my family members. We are all very proud of Chris for continuing his education. My sister would be very proud also.